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This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

Comment

It’s easy to wait for the big milestones — holidays, anniversaries, breakthroughs — to celebrate joy together. But marriage is mostly lived in the ordinary: cups of tea, daily routines, shared glances, the small kindnesses that often go unnoticed.

We’ve discovered that joy doesn’t just arrive — it’s cultivated. When we pause to notice and give thanks for the ordinary, we often find ourselves smiling at how extraordinary the everyday really is.

Reflection

Where have you found joy in your ordinary moments this week?

Prayer suggestion (as a couple)

Take a moment to thank God for one small, ordinary thing about your partner that brings you joy.

Prayer suggestion (for another couple)

Think of a couple in your circle who may be weighed down by busyness or pressure, and ask God to sprinkle joy into their ordinary days.

Final quote

Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. Henri Nouwen