Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. — 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Comment
We all need encouragement. Life can be demanding, and sometimes the voice in our own head is far more critical than anything anyone else might say.
One of the wonderful things about being in a relationship is having someone alongside us who can remind us of our strengths when we’ve forgotten them ourselves.
Yet encouragement can easily get lost in the everyday. We might notice something wonderful about our partner but forget to tell them. Or perhaps we assume they already know how much we admire or appreciate them.
Encouragement doesn’t have to be elaborate. Sometimes a simple “I’m proud of you”, “I really appreciate how you handled that” or “I believe in you” can make an enormous difference.
Our words have the power to build confidence, offer reassurance and help each other flourish.
Reflection
When did you last intentionally encourage your partner? Is there something you admire about them that you haven’t told them recently?
Prayer suggestion (as a couple)
Thank God for the gifts and strengths you see in each other. Ask Him to help you become each other’s greatest encouragers.
Prayer suggestion (for another couple)
Think of a couple who may be feeling discouraged or overwhelmed. Pray that they would find ways to build each other up.
Final quote
Encouragement is like oxygen to the soul. — George M. Adams
